Thank you for being a friend

I know I would not have enjoyed my childhood as much, if I didn't share it with friends. I also know I am natually shy and not outgoing. I know one of the worst feelings is rejection. So, I am usually not the person to call or invite. As, I am getting older I am thinking about the golden years of my life. With the loss of Betty White who was part of the television show "Golden Girls", the nostalgic feeling of getting old with friends was brought to mind. It was the wish I always had for my mother. And, a lot of my mother's friends were younger then her, but passed way before her. She had always had a group of friends to play cards, go on religous retreats or go on Atlantic City trips with. Raising my family and working I really didn't pay much attention to friendships. My really good friends from growing up shared the same attitude. Near or far or a long time would by, but we could always pick up where we left off. I think during the middle part of your life is the busiest and it is hard to find the time to play. So, when I met a woman my age while watching a sunrise, I was surprised we formed an instant friendship. And, she formed a group of kindred spirits who never met before. We have a game night every week, and it exactly what I needed. I am so grateful. It will probably be short lived, because the one thing we all have in common is we all are winter rentals. But, since I will still be here in Ocean Grove, we will keep in touch. The other part of my life I am grateful for currently is moving into a new studio apartment. I love this one with the french decor and ocean views from every window. But, the one I am moving to is unfurnished. So, every night I lull myself to sleep thinking how I am going to arrange my furniture. It is teeny tiny, but I have windows that face the south. The windows have ocean and lake views. I will not only see the sunrise, but I will see the sunset. I can't wait to see the walls turn to a golden glow. These are my golden years, and I have worked hard to start to live a life deserving to feel like my golden years. I am fighting like hell (with myself) to be a Warrior not a worrier. And, time with friends, enjoying live music, making the most of my job and enjoying the peace and quiet of my home is going to make my time golden. Time is prescious and I am not going to waste a second making it seem anything but golden. Onward! Quote of the day: Friendship is the golden thread that ties the heart of all the world. - Author: John Evelyn Song of the day: Thank You for being a Friend sung by Cher